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Ladies, Join Me At The Inaugural Opening Night For MACFW

2015-opening-night-headerThe Massachusetts Conference For Women kicks off next week with its first-ever Opening Night — an evening of speakers, signings, shopping, learning and networking. The event will be held December 9th from 5-9pm at the Boston Convention and Exhibition Center. Many of the Conference-day speakers will be participating in talks, interviews, book signings and meet and greets. I’ll personally be happy to see Tory  Johnson, contributor to ABC’s Good Morning America and #1 New York Times best-selling author of The Shift. Tory actually included me in one or her earlier books, Will Work From Home, and I was lucky enough to be invited to speak on her Spark & Hustle tour a few years ago.

Opening Night attendees can take advantage of LinkedIn profile makeover workshops, volunteer for a local nonprofit, watch live product pitches and support local woman-owned businesses in the Expo Hall. It’s the Conference experience on a smaller scale and I’m excited to attend! You can, too! Tickets are only $25 and can be purchased at maconferenceforwomen.org.

The Massachusetts Conference for Women offers the community and connection, the information and inspiration, the motivation and momentum to help you discover what you want—and go get it! The Conference features nationally recognized speakers who share their wisdom and expertise on a wide range of personal and professional development topics, helping you find clarity on your goals and what you need to accomplish them.

Unfortunately, conference tickets are sold out. But I have two tickets to the Opening Night event to give away*. If you’d like to join me there, please be one of the first two readers to leave a comment below with the best piece of advice you’ve received that inspired you to reach great heights personally or professionally. The first two readers to comment will win free registration to the Opening Night event. Please be sure that you can attend if you are going to comment!

I look forward to seeing many of you next Wednesday.


*Giveaway Details:

No purchase necessary

First two people to comment will win a free ticket to Opening Night

Winners must confirm they are able to attend the Opening Night event

Prize value: $25.00

Comments must be received by Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Winners must provide their email upon request – a registration code will be sent to the winners via email

Free registrations sponsored by The Massachusetts Conference For Women

Boston Entrepreneurs #Unpitch VCs

Securing funding for your startup can be both daunting and difficult. The plethora of crowdfunding companies and those claiming to connect you with VCs – for a price – don’t make the landscape any easier to navigate.

A few folks in Boston are collaborating with New England Venture Capital Association in hopes of making the process easier for startup entrepreneurs, via December 11’s first “Unpitch.” A free event, #unpitch is “a new event geared to entrepreneurs interested in connecting with investors.”

I can vouch that there are some pretty credible names involved in this endeavor, from both the organizational side, as well as the VC side. So why not take your chance and “unpitch” your business? Caveats are that you need to be willing to talk openly about your idea – not just to VCs but in front of the other chosen entrepreneurs. Game? Here’s how to apply. (Deadline December 1). Good luck!

#39 of #365LifeLessons – Be a Good Sport

Michael Jordan was undoubtedly an amazing basketball player. But you know what made him even better? His attitude about his team and his understanding that regardless of how great an individual he was, he was better with his team.

I’ve got two points today about being a good sport, inspired by the video below form MJ.

1) As awesome as HE was, MJ always focused – and still does here – on the TEAM. We could all use some of that mentality – how do I help the TEAM win? What’s my role in making the TEAM amazing? Who won? Who lost? The TEAM. If you’re focused on the ME in TEAM – at work, in sports, at school, at home, etc. – you don’t get it. (If you’re my sons reading this, I hope I raised you to totally get this video.)

2) Be respectful, always. As an individual, display respect for your coach, your teammates and the opposing team – even if you lose. Work hard and don’t cheat. Accept your losses as gracefully as you celebrate in your wins. Be an example as you go. Never forget where you came from.

As a society, we need to push harder to cultivate and demand respect and behavior from ANY athlete – from grade school to the pros. If we didn’t tolerate and cover up bad behavior just because someone’s a good athlete, perhaps we wouldn’t be facing sad news stories like the one coming out of Boston today. I’m sure Hernandez displayed some bad behavior or anger management issues along the way that should have been addressed before it resulted in what, allegedly, is now murder.

Our society has become so obsessed with winning that we’ve forgotten what true greatness means. Greatness is natural, not forced. Greatness is inspiring, not intimidating. And greatness is what you will achieve if you follow the right path.

Part of the Series What I’ve Learned, What I’m Learning – #365LifeLessons

I. Am. So. Pissed.

Today’s tragedy at the Boston Marathon is devastating. Horrendous. Yet another awful act of hatred and terrorism unfolding before our very eyes and affecting our neighbors, our friends, families, colleagues and countrymen and women.

I, like a lot of you I’d imagine, am struggling with how to deal with this. I was at first shocked and bewildered, then aghast as I learned of the injuries and deaths, then sad – very sad – then thought, “How can I help?” – and then… Pissed.

I am so fucking pissed.

I am pissed because I have to yet again try to explain this world to my young sons who are afraid of the “bad guys” and who I continue to lie to when I say “Monsters don’t exist.” How do I explain these things to them – this time not just in the news but in their backyard?

I’m pissed because more innocent people lost their lives to blind haters. Including an eight-year-old-boy. That could have been my boy. Your boy. Your daughter.

I’m pissed because a great piece of my hometown was stolen today. A day that was ours – a day that made us proud because it represented who we are as a city. “Free and fiercely independent,” as President Obama described us.

I ran the Boston Marathon in 2010 and to cross that historical finish line was amazing. Nearly 5,000 people didn’t get to experience that amazing feat today. And that pisses me off as well. They deserve to cross that finish line. (You can read my ecstatic happiness from that day in my notes if you’re  a Facebook friend.)

This marathon in particular – like New York – brings together people of different nationalities, backgrounds, experiences. I read that 96 countries were represented, coming together for “friendly competition” as the President said.

Marked and scarred forever by whoever did this.

And again my emotions vacillate between sadness, shock, anger. I have moments of feeling like I want to run away to a cabin with my kids and live off the land and protect them from the crazy people.

And then I am reminded that there are good people. More good than bad, we hope. A bunch of folks are posting the Mister Rogers “look for the helpers” quote and one of my friends challenged me to run the Boston Marathon with her in 2014 so “they can’t win.”

I was hoping to do that anyway (run in 2014) because I’ve been unable to run for months now due to recovering from shoulder surgery – and I was thinking Boston would be an awesome race to work up to over the next year. So I think I’ll let my anger – and my hope for mankind – fuel me to do that. When I cross that finish line, it won’t be for me. It will be for those lost today. It will be for the Spirit of Boston. It will be because I’m pissed – and I refuse to let the bad guys win. And I will cheer. Because I refuse to let evil win.

Love that dirty water, Boston you’re my home.

Wow, Thank you Boston for the Birthday Wishes!

Okay yes it’s true. Today I turned 40. It’s also true that I have been dreading it just a bit… but today has been amazing. I am lucky enough to have a lot of great friends and family that have always made my birthdays special, but today I was truly, amazingly surprised by so many people in the Boston Social Media Scene.

Spearheaded by my friend and sometime-business partner, Tyson Goodridge, a bunch of Boston’s brightest – and some of my far flung colleagues – came together to create this very special Happy Birthday video for me. To say I was shocked is an understatement. To simply say “thank you” seems inadequate.

I had no idea people were doing this and I was speechless – speechless and humbled and so incredibly touched – when I saw this.

I can’t thank you all enough. To take the time out of your very busy lives to record and compile (wow Tyson, thank you) these wishes just for me is truly mind boggling. I am humbled by your kindness and support and realize today I am even luckier than I ever knew to have such great people around me here in Boston.

Check it out – I love ya’all! Thank you SO MUCH for making 40 better than I ever anticipated.

Click here to watch the video.

Speaking of the Boston Marathon – @NYTimes ponders a gender war & if the ladies need to run faster…. ladies?

When do we stop increasing qualifying times – I mean, really, how far can they go? And the world expects athletes to not use performance-enhancing drugs. Twisted, if you ask me.

Amplify’d from www.wallstreetjournal.com

It’s Time for Women to Run Faster

Boston’s Crowded Marathon Prompts a Gender War; Why Females Get an Extra 30 Minutes


If you’re interested in running next year’s Boston Marathon, you’d better get set.

Race officials say the marathon’s 21,000 prized slots, which used to take six months to distribute, could be filled in a matter of days after registration opens on Monday. In fact, every spot could be taken before the ING New York City Marathon—the nation’s largest—takes place on Nov. 7. If that happens, New York’s race would effectively be eliminated for the first time as a qualifier for next year’s Boston.

The record demand for Boston slots has much to do with the exploding popularity of marathons in the U.S.: The 10% growth in participation last year was the largest spurt in 25 years. The number of runners who qualify for Boston now far exceeds the available places (excluding about 5,000 spots reserved for charity runners).


But there’s another possible reason for the surging demand—one that has the potential to kick up a fair amount of controversy. It’s the notion that the qualifying standards for women are too soft.

By all accounts, the running boom is being fueled by women more than men. Women made up 42% of finishers in the 2010 Boston race—a proportion that is higher than the percentage of all U.S. marathoners who are women. But according to gender rules instituted in 1977, the marathon times women need to post to qualify for Boston are 30 minutes slower than the times the men in the same age group have to run. The problem: There’s no evidence that women really need that much extra time.

Runners cross the Verrazano Narrows Bridge at the start of last year’s New York Marathon.

The typical gap in major 2009 marathons between the world’s elite male and female runners was closer to 20 minutes than 30—and has been shrinking over time. For less-than-elite runners, these gaps have created some questionable benchmarks. To qualify for Boston, for instance, a man aged 50 to 54 has to have posted a time of 3:35 or better. But that time is five minutes faster than the time required for women 34 and younger. In a nutshell, to make Boston, a 54-year old man has to run faster than the nation’s youngest and fastest women.


Some running experts say that one way to reduce excess demand for Boston slots would be to stop treating women like the gentler sex. When the 30-minute qualifying gap was implemented in 1977, “the mentality was, ‘frailty, thy name is woman,’ ” said Tom Derderian, a Boston-area running coach and author of a history on the Boston Marathon. “People don’t realize many women today run faster than the men who won the Boston Marathon in the past.”

Compare the Boston, New York and Chicago marathons. See elevation profiles, last year’s fastest times, recent race-day temperatures and other details.

“The women’s times should probably be tougher,” said Maria Simone, a 36-year-old New Jersey professor who has qualified for Boston. Last November, Ms. Simone and her husband, John Jenkins, who is also 36, ran the Philadelphia Marathon in pursuit of a Boston qualifying time. He finished in 3:25, 13 minutes ahead of her. But she qualified for Boston with seven minutes to spare while he remains 10 minutes short of the 3:15 that he needed to qualify. “The strange thing is, I used to be faster than him,” Ms. Simone said.

Guy Morse, executive director of the Boston Athletic Association, which oversees the marathon, called grading for gender “an inexact science.” He said no tightening of standards is imminent for either men or women. Mr. Morse added that the marathon’s legendary course is too narrow to accommodate any expansion of the field. “Exclusivity is part of the allure,” he said.

The 30-minute head start for women was enacted only five years after the event began allowing women to register and fully seven years before the Olympic Games introduced a women’s marathon.


Narrowing the gender gap would align Boston more nearly with its counterpart in the world of ultramarathon racing, the Western States 100—a 100-mile race whose slots are highly coveted by men and women alike. Qualifying requirements for the Western States have always been identical for men and women, says a historian of that race, Antonio Rossmann.

A veteran himself of the Boston Marathon, Mr. Rossmann said the women’s qualifying times for Boston “are much softer than empiricism should suggest.” Mr. Rossmann said he believes Boston officials have kept the wide gap as a way of compensating for all the earlier years of “keeping women out of the race.”

Teyba Erkesso winning the women’s division of this year’s Boston Marathon.

With physiological advantages such as larger hearts and greater lung capacity, men will probably always run faster than women. But elite women aren’t that far behind. The women’s world marathon record 40 years ago stood about 54 minutes behind the male record; today it’s only about 11 minutes slower.

The female winner at last Sunday’s Chicago Marathon crossed the finish line about 14 minutes after the male winner. At the nation’s five largest marathons—all certified as Boston Marathon qualifying races—the gender differential among top runners in 2009 stood closer to 20 minutes than 30.

Running USA, a research center based in Colorado, has collected raw data from nearly 500 marathons across the country that show a median gender difference of about 28 minutes in finishing times. But similar data also show that while men tend to finish in a long line from fastest to slowest, women divide into two distinct groups—one that’s fast and another that’s considerably slower.

Running experts say the second grouping, which tends to move as a pack, drags down the median finishing times for all women. “Women are social and tend to tackle new goals with a close friend or group of girlfriends more often than men,” says a report on the Running USA website.


If Boston raised its qualifying standards, it’s possible that more women would fail to qualify. But many others would likely pick up the pace. At a marathon in Oregon in May, Julie Fingar of Sacramento, Calif., a pro runner who works as a pacesetter, led several hundred runners, mostly women, at a pace designed to finish just under 3:40, the Boston qualifying time for women 34 and under. “If they tightened the standards, I think most of those women would just run faster,” she said.

In any event, runners who’ve already qualified and who hope to register for next spring’s Boston marathon won’t be taking any chances on Monday.

“Everybody’s worried that it might fill up the first day,” said Boston veteran Jennifer Lashua of San Francisco.

Write to Kevin Helliker at kevin.helliker@wsj.com and David Biderman at David.Biderman@wsj.com

Read more at www.wallstreetjournal.com


Yes! #ELD2010 was a huge success – as noted by the Boston Globe (@GlobePhoto) 1200+ support @FriendsofEricD

Thank you to everyone who supported this event and Eric. It was outstanding!

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Bill Brett’s latest Boston party photos
Aug. 6 in Boston

More than 1,200 guests attended a fund-raiser at the House of Blues for Eric Donovan, of Scituate, a quadriplegic who was injured while diving at a Scituate beach in 2009. A few weeks before his accident, Donovan was pronounced cancer free at 21 years old after suffering from Ewing’s sarcoma, a rare cancer in the groin area, since the age of 15. Before beating the disease, he was given a 30 percent chance of survival.

More than 1,200 guests attended a fundraiser at the House of Blues for Eric Donovan of Scituate. Donovan, 15, was diagnosed with Ewing's Sarcoma, a rare cancer in the groin area. He had a just a 30% chance of survival. Miraculously, in July 2009, at the age 21, he was pronounced cancer free. However, just five short weeks later, Eric dove into the water at a local beach, and fractured several vertebrae. He is now quadriplegic.

See more at www.boston.com


You Can Do Good, Easily – Meet Me August 6 at Boston’s House of Blues for Eric Donovan

I made this video for Eric Donovan, hoping it will help inspire you to join us on August 6th at Boston’s House of Blues, to help raise funds for him to pursue the best in rehabilitation.

At 15 Eric was diagnosed with Ewings Sarcoma. He beat the 30% chance for survival that they gave him. After battling the disease throughout his teen years, he was cleared of the disease…and just weeks later, he was critically injured in a diving accident, leaving him a quadriplegic.

Eric’s strength and determination have touched so many. I didn’t know Eric before this event – I just happened to be at the same beach the day of his accident and was moved to help him. I hope you will be, too.

Tickets are $50.00 – celeb appearances, auctions, raffles and more will make it an unforgettable night for Eric – and you. You’ve gone to parties or TweetUps for less, right? Please sign up & meet me in Boston – have fun & do good, it’s easy.

Read more and buy tickets – or donate services or goods for the raffle/auction at http://www.eld2010.com.

Thank you!

I don’t want to be greedy…

Okay I don’t want to be a typical Sox fan but tonight…well the game was almost too good, ya know? I don’t want the boys blowing it all in the first few games. Save some for later – you know how we like drama!

That being said, wow, everyone looked so great tonight!

Am I the only one in RSN that gets nervous when they win by so much in Game 1? Perhaps I should relax, given 2004… maybe we secretly like all the drama.